There are these moments during particular days where I have to be incredibly truthful with myself about what I am going through and feeling.
When these moments hit me, I feel this type of energy that is hard to describe. I feel true, undisputed honesty bubbling up to the surface and the willingness to really see who I am. While I eventually came to terms with these feelings, it took me a while to really look myself in the eyes and understand what I was all about.
What follows after this moment is pure stillness. Deep in thought. Numb. I feel truth bubble up to the surface.
Sometimes we are going through life not realising that there are things under the surface that we don't see. We think that we have totally healed or have moved on, but in reality there are still pieces to the puzzle that must be put together.
There's an amazing balance between moving forward and making the effort, whatever the situation might be and starting to understand what is going on within. I think much of the time when someone is hurt and people recognize it they attempt to tell that person to pick themselves up as fast as possible and forget the past. This information, while trying to be helpful, isn't really realistic - because the same person who gave that advice, in a similar scenario, couldn't possibly take it.
The best advice for someone who is struggling is to sit with it and let it pass. They need to let it all flow through their body and take it's rounds inside. Why? Because the only way you can really understand what something really means to you, especially in a relationship, is by experiencing the aftermath of uncontrollable emotions running rampant inside.
Have a very honest moment with yourself.
Life has an incredibly interesting way of shaping and molding you exactly the way you need to be in order to live the best life you can possibly live. It's not always going to be easy and there are going to be plenty of times where you will be challenged like crazy, but accept these challenges willingly. They will teach you a whole lot.
When those moments are over, that's when you can move forward. But make sure you don't attempt to change everything while you are in it. Something is trying to talk to you. Open yourself to emotions and let them talk reason into your heart.
When these moments hit me, I feel this type of energy that is hard to describe. I feel true, undisputed honesty bubbling up to the surface and the willingness to really see who I am. While I eventually came to terms with these feelings, it took me a while to really look myself in the eyes and understand what I was all about.
What follows after this moment is pure stillness. Deep in thought. Numb. I feel truth bubble up to the surface.
Sometimes we are going through life not realising that there are things under the surface that we don't see. We think that we have totally healed or have moved on, but in reality there are still pieces to the puzzle that must be put together.
There's an amazing balance between moving forward and making the effort, whatever the situation might be and starting to understand what is going on within. I think much of the time when someone is hurt and people recognize it they attempt to tell that person to pick themselves up as fast as possible and forget the past. This information, while trying to be helpful, isn't really realistic - because the same person who gave that advice, in a similar scenario, couldn't possibly take it.
The best advice for someone who is struggling is to sit with it and let it pass. They need to let it all flow through their body and take it's rounds inside. Why? Because the only way you can really understand what something really means to you, especially in a relationship, is by experiencing the aftermath of uncontrollable emotions running rampant inside.
Have a very honest moment with yourself.
Life has an incredibly interesting way of shaping and molding you exactly the way you need to be in order to live the best life you can possibly live. It's not always going to be easy and there are going to be plenty of times where you will be challenged like crazy, but accept these challenges willingly. They will teach you a whole lot.
When those moments are over, that's when you can move forward. But make sure you don't attempt to change everything while you are in it. Something is trying to talk to you. Open yourself to emotions and let them talk reason into your heart.
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